I was not in the Boston lair but I hear they run a pretty good group there. There were some rumours a few years back about the leaders kicking guys out if they are not improving and there were different feelings about that.

A general awareness of the sexual ratio and the hotness of women in a location helps but don’t dwell on it. Similarly being well traveled definitely gives you a more rounded perspective on life.

Funny enough, I just talked to this European dude who moved from Silicon Valley to Boston a few years ago and he mirrored pretty much what you said. He told me that the Silicon Valley area sucked quality and quantity-wise, but that SF was ok. He also said that Santa Cruz had the “hot women,” but that he found Bay Area women in general more shallow than the women in Boston. Ironically I would have guessed the opposite.

Were you ever a member of the Boston Lair or involved in the scene back when you were on the East Coast?

Thanks for the comment.

I am originally from Boston and yes, there were cuter girls there overall. There are cute girls here too. However the weather makes it difficult as it is always cold and I didn’t think a lot of Boston girls had good fashion sense. That being said the ratio at Harvard square is WAY better than out here. SF city itself it not bad.

Once you develop good game and ratio should not be as big of a factor, but there is a difference as your sexual selection ratio changes so should your game.

Don’t let the ratio stop you from moving to California though if that is what you want. This may help:

http://creativeclass.com/whos_your_city/maps/#The_Singles_Map

http://www.creativeclass.com/creative_class/2007/04/03/the-singles-map/

Thanks and keep up the good work!

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