Without dialing into this frequency, you cannot effectively communicate with the people, usually the majority, that are dialed into the club’s frequency channel. So the idea is to figure out a way to get your energy level usually up to match the clubs atmosphere. You can do this in a variety of different ways:

First you can naturally train yourself whenever you walk into a club to start feeling the vibe and get excited about going inside. Remember when you were a kid and you are about to go on the playground to play? This should be the same type of feeling that you get as you walk into the club. Naturally, this takes some time and anchoring helps in the process. The more you do it in the more you condition yourself to associate positive feelings of fun and playfulness to this type of environment, the easier it will be over time.

Anchoring Positive Feelings when you “Hate” Clubs

Now, let’s assume that you hate clubs. As a matter of fact, I kind of hate clubs also. It’s loud, it’s noisy, people are smoking, I don’t really enjoy drinking alcohol, and I hate, HATE facing rejection. However there is one thing the club has that I do very much enjoy perhaps above all else. Hot girls.

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Here are a few ways every condition myself to actually have fun at a club. First allow yourself 1 drink, something that you like. Champagne and wine tends to stand out and gets you opened more. This little bit of alcohol loosens you up and doesn’t impair your motor skills in any way to affect your speech or thinking. Second, try going to clubs where you actually enjoy the music. If you are hip hop guy most clubs play hip-hop. If you are a alternative rock guy try to pick clubs that play that type of music. Some guys like techno and trance. Whatever it is, try to find something that you enjoy about the music.

Dance as if no one is watching, as they say. And there is an important lesson in this passed down wisdom of thought. Taking salsa or hip-hop classes will help you familiarize yourself with your body and the different movements. Body isolation exercises allow you to understand muscles and how they work and how to move certain parts of your body in isolation and in coordination with each other. Not only is useful in a club, it also helps you significantly in understanding your body in other areas of life.

Keep in mind that energy is in play, so your body language is also very important. It a loud club, your body language speaks much more than your words alone. So check out the articles and posts on body language to have a better understanding of nonverbal communication. The words you use aren’t as important as the way you say it, especially in a loud club environment. It’s more about the energy and the way you say it.

The Purple Haze

Keep in mind there’s a purple haze about everybody including her guy friends. Everyone is sort of an minimal state of tracks or hypnosis. Have you ever caught yourself wondering at the lights and music and the crowd and forgetting about everything else? Imagine this times three for women given that in general they are more emotional than men. As such, when talking to a girl or when introducing yourself you have to quickly cut through the haze. You do this a couple of ways. First strong dominance and confident body language. Non-neediness. And a verbal resonance and tonality but quickly states whatever it is you’re trying to say. Tyler will go up to girls and say hey! Who are you. Say it like you mean it. Say it like you were an actor on a movie set in the directors yelling at you to show some emotion. As a matter of fact, stock practicing your lines as if you’re always on a movie set. This is your movie and you are the starring actor.

Self Amusement is a big one here, and I had a huge breakthrough from Julien (RSD) whereby he says, “you need to redirect the girl’s RAS to you. Then, you can chill and relax”

Dealing with Guy Friends Who Are Lame

Sometimes your guy friends why no standing there, as those guys do. That’s okay. You want to try to go out with people that enjoy clubs, but don’t let that stop you from achieving what you want to do. At the beginning of the night, before people get too drunk, this is a good time to make a round of introductions. Don’t try to get anything from the girl just introduce yourself get her name and move on. As the night goes on you can reopen her as if you know her from before.

You want to be in the interacting with as many people as you can. I know this sounds like a lot of work, but it is actually less work for you when you do the groundwork and the results will come. Interact even with guys. You’re just a guy having a good time at the club on your way to the bathroom or on your way to the bar give a compliment or make a remark to guys and girls. You want to open as many green lights as you can in your social matrix. As the haze starts setting in towards the end of the night, people start getting drunk, people start having their attention pulled in many different directions, you want these initial acquaintances have the initial green light to open a social door.

Dance Floor Game – I admit, it can be HARD

On the dance floor, opening girls can be difficult. This is why we go about making initial introductions so they at least know who we are. Just by doing this you stand out from 90% of the guys out there. If you haven’t done your “mayor walk” (hey, how’s your night going),  your chances are a lot lower for success. Nonetheless don’t let that stop you. You will get rejected harshly at a club. Girls will turn their backs on you, or sometimes they are nice and open up. You just don’t know. Much like rolling the dice at the casino a cold approach is just as chancy.

Don’t take any rejection too personally as a matter I don’t take any rejection personally from anyone that you don’t know for more than three years. With this in mind, on the dance floor, you want to initiate a conversation and start dancing with girls. This may take a few sets, however once you hit your first set, then the night has to go well. Other girls see you dancing with girls, and you can further escalation on the dance floor or ask her for a drink later on. Another way is just to dance and bump into girls and have a good time on the dance floor. Depending on the venue, sometimes a girl will jump to dance with you. Having good dance skills here to help and is another reason why someone may want to take dance classes.

The reward for dance floor game is high, as is the "risk"

At the end of the day, it is one thing to remember, is to get your energy up to the point of matching the club’s vibe. Simply by doing this alone, you’ll be in a better state to be opened and to engage in conversations with other people that are in the same state.

“I just don’t feel it man!”

Sometimes you just can’t feel a certain way. It has been a long week, and you don’t want to be there. That’s okay. Relax. Breathe. You are the master of your own feelings. Just lean back, relax and chill out. Enjoy the vibe, since you have to be there anyway, or simply tell your friends that you’ve had a long day and you’re going home.

Or, you can try to spot out the other people that may feel like you and here’s an opener to use “you look like I feel!”. Sometimes, other girls that may want to leave the club and are just there waiting for their friends, you can relate to her on the negative level based on a mutual dislike of the current situation. Keep in mind, this is a tough type of game to run, and for the most part the majority of the girls there are there to have fun.

Energy Flow in the Club

The energy at the club goes like this through the night:

• 9-10pm: getting in, finding friends, settling into the music
• 10-11pm: start to settle in, lots of girls in their little circles talking, more people coming in (critical mass hits around 11-11:30) and this is when the line is the longest usually
• 11-12:30: dance, drink, fun, fun, butterflies, what?
• 12:30-1:30: more dancing, more drunk, guys start hitting on girls (AFC guys who are drunk), girls become very protective. Some guys will get make outs and escalate at this point with the girls that are horny, and if their game is right.
• 1:30-2:00pm: good street game. Girls are drunk on their way home, and you can go outside and just hit up a ton of sets.

I plan to write more about CLUB game, because this is where the hottest girls are. It is also the most difficult type of game to run in cold approaches. Simply because on the dance floor you have to have 100% conviction in your approach.

There is also very high social pressure. One of my friends said he felt like he was in the casino. “Everything in there is set up for you to fail!”, he said. Actually, everything in there is set up for the maximization of revenue. The drinks are expensive, there is a cover charge and the lines are long. The music is loud and it’s crowded because people want more people to come and pay the high prices at the club. They want social proof, and therefore let hot girls in while guys pay them money!

sometimes, girls are sitting down and just there with their friends. Approach the ones that are flashing "green" and work your way from there.

As an artist, you can semi-game the system. You still have to pay cover, but limit yourself to one or two drinks. Or drink water. The rest of it is based in social skills and that, my friend, costs no money.

Update: Cutting through the haze. This is a really good video. Having a REAL conversion and cutting through the haze of the club.

This is especially important in club game, where there are so many things competing for our RAS

More on “CLUB GAME” to come, I promise.

Recently a good friend of mine brought to my attention that my “score” may be lower than what I say it is. When people ask me, I say, “I stopped counting after 30, because it doesn’t matter to me anymore”. And honestly believed it to be true. I recently wrote the “list”, and here’s my final tally as of 15 minutes into it. I am counting every “insertion” or “happy ending” for me as “1″:

“Honesty is not a human default. It must be sustained as a virtue

1. M. First girl. She was a virgin too. I was 23.
2. Kansas girl. Ended up being my first girlfriend for 1 year. Taught me a lot about sex.
3. Drunk Korean Girl – ONS
4. Slutty Emily – She sleeps around and is open about it. Lives in my apartment. We hooked up a few times
5. Hot Club Asian Girl in Vegas – ended up being 2nd GF for 8 months
6. Campbell fat girl With Shogun
7. Chubby Blonde Royalty’s house
8. PhD Stanford German Girl
9. SF Mall girl ONS – wanted LTR, I said no.
10. Chubby Blonde foursome
11. Stanford catalogue model girl – one time hand job. Wouldn’t fuck me said she had a boyfriend in Singapore
12. Brunette MILF – came over to my house after breaking up with her BF
13. Brazil girl handjob at house party
14. Vegas girl – my first black girl
15. SJSU Girl Blowjob
16. Stanford PhD girl
17. Stanford undergrad girl
18. Chubby artist San Jose
19. J Ms. Independent

This is not counting:

• 2 hookers
• a few girls I forgot
• Make out sessions or girls I’ve gotten half naked, but never “fucked”

So, now that the data is clear and the truth is on the board, looking forward to #20.

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This is an important question to answer for any man who chooses to travel in a path of his own choosing. As I started asking my friends this question, I realized that most people haven’t really even thought about it.

In this post I will share my dreams with you.

Our dreams are derived,  I think, from our subconscious and the respective influences when we are growing up. Things that we realized that we really wanted to do.

Angeal tries to impart valuable knowledge to the young Zack Fair in Crisis Core:

For me, I always wanted to be a businessman. I saw my dad’s life in the diplomatic services, and although he had a lot of power, money did not go hand in hand. I also saw bureaucratic processes that didn’t fit with my innovative thinking. I believed that in business, the power of the market and supply and demand would ensure fair trade of skill and talent in the marketplace. To this day, I still believe this, although I am more jaded. I also wanted to be in the US because it was the one place where government corruption was at least kept in check and that a relatively fair market system allowed entrepreneurs to become whatever it is they wanted to be.

From a seduction viewpoint, I always wanted the skill to get the girl that I want. I’ve achieved some semblance of this, although it still takes me 2-3 weeks of consistently going out to get a full close or find a girlfriend. To me, having the mastery of understanding women and how to talk to them allows me to possess the freedom from fear of losing a girl. Most guys fear that they won’t find something better. I believe that any solid relationship requires the people in it to make decisions based on the dynamic of the relationship, instead of fear of the future. Any guy who doesn’t have this option will always betray his loyalty to himself, because he will sacrifice putting up with “good enough” when the fear keeps him in check in a mediocre relationship.

Mystery and Matador Demo for the boys in Season 2 of The Pick Up Artist

Besides from cold approach, my dream was always a mixture of business and women. I dream of owning an amazing house and mansion. In this house, everything that makes me, my family, and my friends happy exist. People come and go, and we live in harmony. We throw amazing parties with the hottest girls around, and I am the host. I have options with girls, however I am in love with the one that complete me. I have social value that I can pass around to those I care about, and I am able to provide a social center gravity for fun, sex, and the freedom of being for all my friends. That’s my dream. At least, one of these parties, before I die. Even if we have to “rent” everything and pay girls to be there, some semblance of achieving this, I believe, is a part of my destiny.

Example of Playboy Mansion Halloween Party:

So what are your dreams? What is the one thing you want to do with your life before you die? Think about it. Talk about it. Post it.

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Me: (With the greatest humility I can summon up) I am the best PUA I know. (Exceptions: DJ Fuji and Arash)

(A few hours later)

DJ Fuji: ?

Me: Just venting.

Me: No one I know is better than me. I have come to realize that getting good at game is my responsibility and mine only.

DJ Fuji: It was, is, and always will be.

I have gotten decent at game. In fact, I have gotten quite good. Nonetheless, there’s still so much more I need to learn. For the longest time, I have always thought that “running a pack” gives your tribe power and you can do more as a group. I believed this for a very long time. One of the negative drawbacks of the “tribe” metaphor is that you come to depend on it a little too much.

My mentality became, “Go out with other guys so all of you can get good”.  Well. This metaphor is no longer working for me. DJ Fuji was supposed to meet with me last October and we had a scheduling conflict. I have never seen him in field. His advice to me as a friend and his willingness to spend time helping me and others, even though I don’t give him any money is testament to him actually caring about his students instead of focusing on “money, money, money”. Also, there’s something about his background that naturally appeals to me. To me, he represents the game. A short Asian guy (also raised in traditional Chinese background) now actually teaching game full-time. Here I am, a tall, relatively good-looking tall Asian guy. If this guy can run game, well so can I, right?

Arash is the BEST PUA I have seen in field with my own eyes. His execution is flawless. At a well-know, upscale local restaurant, he gamed a beautiful waitress and he was able to repeat this every time we went out. In field, his delivery and his body language flows like that of a martial arts master. Yet everything he does appears natural and congruent. His girls are 9s and 10s, and many of them I have swore to myself I will one day learn how to get (not his specific girls, but girls that are of that caliber of beauty).

Arash has a girlfriend, and he doesn’t do many cold approaches these days. His gaming style involves being in situations that require the girl to approach him. Shopping stores, restaurants, hired gun game. His life is a constant stream of Hooters girls, HB9s at fancy restaurants, and girls he meets at his martial arts studio. He hasn’t always taken the time to instruct me on exactly what I am doing, however he has always been gracious in demonstrating his own level of game. Then again, I never paid him for 1-on-1 coaching.

Besides Fuji and Arash, a few naturals I know are quite good. One of them pulls DTF girls (not super good looking; but ok looking) on weekdays at a local bar. Another one is just naturally tall, good looking, and alpha at the same time. He’s fun to be around and due to this extreme height, party girls approach him at clubs asking him how tall he is. Girls are so original in their pick up lines aren’t they?

Another natural friend developed a social circle in downtown Palo Alto, and has a general system of pulling girls back to his place in the local bars there.  Another 19 year old natural pulls teenage girls left and right on campuses he visits. He lives with his parents and has no cell phone, only a pager. He is always running out of money, and often gets the girls he meets to pay for him or stays temporarily at their place. He’s sort of like Nikki in “Spread” (Ashton Kutcher)

Interestingly, most of my natural friends aren’t particularly rich. In fact, they usually have mediocre jobs and not a lot of money. Most of the “PUAs” I know work high end tech jobs here in the bay. They make decent money. Their game sucks.

I went out today on my own and did a few approaches. Same thing on Friday. I was able to have some great interactions with girls. I realized that my game is generally very smooth. I still make some mistakes here and there. Once I get going and hit my stride, I am very consistent in my delivery and my success ratio is quite high.

As scary as it is to go out alone, once you have that ONE great interaction with the girl, everything feels… amazing. You feel FREE. I felt free. I no longer needed anyone’s acclaim but my own.

In a way, it sort of feels like salsa dancing. You can be on the greatest salsa team in the world. And you can perform, and represent the team. The whole team can look good on stage. However, at the end of the day, can you, as a lead, dance with another girl and lead her properly? No one else can do this for you. Even the best coaches can only give you direction on the side. The power of YOU to dictate the immediate future of the tonality, frame, and emotions generated by your actions is INCREDIBLE. Once understood, we stop making excuses and allow ourselves to take full credit and responsibility for our pick up success.

My next step will be to build up a social circle of female friends, simply by solo sarging. If I can do this alone, I will have my own acclaim and no longer will I need the approval nor help of others. Furthermore, I expect that I will run into some other natural players on the way, and in building up such a lucrative circle, I will be able to offer them some value in return.

When Allen Shore first Met Denny Crane (The Practice):

I believe such a friend will come. In the meantime, I have been going out with a few newbies recently just to be out. I’ve been doing this cold approach thing on and off for 5 years now. I’ve done over 1000 approaches. I ‘ve gotten pretty good at cold approach game. I have also built a solid foundation in my social circle in the bay area. When I am giving you the common mistakes that newbies make speech, trust that I know what I am talking about.

Some of the common mistakes I have noticed are as follows:

1. The newbie is over eager and talks too much. They are excited and they speak and speak. This actually has a positive effect on opening, and they usually can do well in the first 5-10 minutes .Girls even laugh at some of their routines. This effect starts wearing off because he keeps giving value without asking for some type of investment from the girl. After the 7 minute mark, the mood changes and the girl realizes that he’s a dancing monkey. So they just laugh and enjoy the moment, and then scatter off. When asked for a number close, she rarely gives it outright. The correct way to give value without return is to talk about something interesting, then chat as if you were talking to yourself. Then, say goodbye and drift to another group. Instead, the newbie stays and keeps talking, amused that his material is actually getting acclaim. He fails to realize that HE is the one that must get acclaim. Attraction is tied to his identity, not his material.
2. The newbie doesn’t acknowledge his friend. Instead of giving his friend proper props, he continues to chat up the girl. Your wing-man is representative of your own value. You must treat him with respect. It is amazing to me how many guys totally forget their wing as soon as they are in “set”. At least give him a nod or shake and say, “give me 10 minute”
3. The newbie fails to hit a “hook” point, where the girl WANTS him to stay and talk to him. When he introduces me to the girls, the girls are SUPER Flakey and sometimes rude. In contrast, a good PUA or natural who introduces me to a girl introduces me in spades and the girl is super interested and gives me tons of credit. This is the difference between a master and a newbie. Masters don’t even introduce girls to me they don’t deem worthy. Newbies will introduce any girl they’ve just met to me. They see more value in the girl than they do in me. A man who has tons of girls will only introduce girls who exhibit good behavior to their best friends.

• We seem to be programmed to sexually desire different genetics. Sex desire is based on smell. Depending on the girl, sometimes he feels that his sexual desire is intense, while other times, mediocre. This is regardless of the girl’s looks and simply relates to the way she smells close up. Perhaps a biological trigger for us to mate with those that have a varied and complimentary gene set.
• As a really hot girl or a man of super high status, usually these people need time to build trust with the opposite sex.
• Having a girl already there creates social proof and additional comfort. Notice the following scenes and how he uses another female there as preselection and social proof in his interview process.

Lessons on How to Become A Better Lover

• Be gentle but firm in your approach
• Kiss her before you get sexual
• Touch her body all over and her breasts – most guys always forget this
• Think of the clitoris as a miniature penis
• Re-framing anal from painful and weird to fun, exciting and good feeling

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