San Diego Field Report 1 and the San Diego Lair (1/3)

I took a week off for vacation this week and decided to drive to San Diego for a week. I’ve always thought about San Diego, and the last time I was here almost 4 years ago, we were stuck on Coranado Island and “Googler” events. Which was great, but I am pretty sure no one got laid.

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How to Deal with Bitches

AKA “How To Deal With Annoying People”

If you are reading this post, chances are you are feeling a little bad about yourself due to a recent event with a girl. That, or you’re an avid reader of pick up and dating blogs which is cool too.

I want to help you address the issue of dealing with bitches in the field, but before doing so with tactical advice, let’s take a look at the real issue at hand.

First of all, this issue does not pertain to bitches alone. They pertain to other people who annoy you, or are otherwise negatively associating with you socially. To this extent, you have to learn to deal with Social Conflict (future definition for PUA Lingo). Social conflict resolution applies to every aspect of your life. Marriages, how to deal with your coworkers, how to behave in school, and how to deal with bullies and strangers who are antagonistic towards you.

First, remember that people who are angry tend to have a reason for being so. And, a bitch is being a bitch for a reason. Where there is anger, there is usually a root of source of it. Have you ever had a bad day where nothing was going well? Or a string of events that is happening to you and, before you know it, you unconsciously start taking it out on other people. Maybe it was the cashier, or the waitress, or a customer you happen to talk to. You realize you were angry about it later on, and you felt bad about treating the other person that way. But what’s done is done, and as humans we make mistakes

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Tactical vs. Strategic feedback

Today I learned the value of strategic versus tactical feedback. I was out with a wing, Sexual Twinkie. For those of you who don’t know him, this kid is newly 21 and isn’t afraid to approach at all. In fact, he AMOGGed 3 really big, good looking black guys today for two blondes and won out!

His dance game is also solid and very tight. As I was giving him some feedback I realized that what I was saying wasn’t sinking in. “You’re opening is great, but you lose the girl because your whole vibe is not authentic enough.”

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Interviews with Professional Dating Coaches

Just a thanks and a heads up for all the masters I have been interviewing lately. In doing so, I have learned a lot about myself and how different our perceptions of the world are. Each master has his (or her) own personal values. Among the differences in personality, there is a consistent quality of …. the definitive-ness of their beliefs about their own mastery of their experiences.

Master Interview Series Intro on PUA Lingo

 

1. I interview Brad P.
2. I interview Arash Dibazar
3. Cool interview by Arash on not being pussies around girls

 

The Game: Meeting Girls in the Bay Area (South Bay & San Jose)

For the last few days I have gone out non-stop in the south bay. I refuse to go out to SF, because my goal is to get consistent lays here in the south bay and the logistics don’t workout when you have to drive an hour each way.

I have also been running 9 and 10 game. This is extremely difficult on its own, and even harder in the south bay, where the guy to girl ratio is close to 2:1.  Most really hot girls already have guys in their groups, and you have to disqualify heavily to open their group. Most of the time, the “guy” friend is also trying to get some. But sometimes they are cool.

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