Fallacies of the Seduction Community #5: Getting a Girlfriend is Hard

Actually… it is relatively easy.

Getting the right girl, falling in love, is hard. After getting a GF, things get personal, it is not a game anymore.

Before this, at times it may seem like it is impossible to get laid, but keep in mind that getting a commitment from any girl isn’t difficult. After all, women are on average 51-52% of the population.

The hard thing is to decide which girls to be in a relationship with, or whether you are ready for a relationship. The hardest thing I had to do was to turn down a super hot blonde girl, because there were minor things that I did not like about her. I decided I could settle, like my last LTR, or not. If I did, I would lose my momentum in learning game, and be in a relationship that perhaps was doomed to fail from the beginning (because I already felt like I was settling).

Knowing this, the biggest mistake a newbie makes is settling for the first “decent looking” girl he meets. These relationship are always doomed to fail, but perhaps in being in them we learn our lesson: the consequences of settling. As a guy in the game, you can take your pic, and with your skills always improving, to choose the right girl for you, and give it a go. After all, falling in love with the right person can be one of the most rewarding things in life.

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    2 Responses to “Fallacies of the Seduction Community #5: Getting a Girlfriend is Hard”
    1. What I am attempting to convey is - if someone feels like they are settling - accepting less than what they think they deserve with women - in life, in all areas, they will always eventually become regretful or live in regret. The subject in which I refer to is the pattern of newbies who settle for a first decent looking girl, because they've never had something like this before. There are plenty of people who are high school sweet hearts and do well, as long as they feel like they have not compromised any major core values of what they really want in a partner

    1. "Knowing this, the biggest mistake a newbie makes is settling for the first “decent looking” girl he meets. These relationship are always doomed to fail, but perhaps in being in them we learn our lesson: the consequences of settling." This kind of 'advice' is about as healthy as swallowing lead paint chips for breakfast. Why the Hell would these relationships be 'doomed' and why is it a 'mistake'? 1) A "decent-looking" girl can be the perfect girl because... well, because there's more than looks. duh. 2) No one can predict the future and as far as I know you don't have psychic superpowers the rest of us don't have. I'm sure there's a guy out there in a great relationship with Highschool sweetheart. Hence, I'd suggest you'd steer clear from using such words as "Always" or "Never". In coaching these generalizations tend to be labelled as limiting beliefs.

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