FR 12/3/2013 in Typhoon PB
Incahoots for a birthday party. Met an Egyptian girl gaming me, I flash gamed her since she was right next to the stage, so I got some nice social proof. There are some hotties here with old country guys. I didn’t get a chance to game too many girls, but we eventually left and she got my number. I got a chance to see what it was like to be gamed. I should have qualified and A3′d her more (male to female interest) so we’ll see how that number pans out.
First set group of German girls went ok, didn’t go anywhere but it was a good warm up set. I am getting better at my interactions at being the prize and being entertaining.
Friends of roommate one really hot Brazilian girl, but I got no traction. She wasn’t feeling me and I could tell, so I let it go. She was a certified Brazilian hottie though.
10 sets go
I open a group of european girls 4-5 set it goes ok until girls pull them away. This always happens in big groups when you don’t properly hook at least one of them.
2 set went very well, got 2 numbers from 2 German girls, pretty hot.
Another 2 set went ok, got pulled away by a friend.
3 set, with Shannon, the brown haired German girl > She’s a real downer, negative Nancy. Some people just have that energy to stay away, it drags you down. Read more
Day 2 Logistics
I had 3-4 dates and no lays for the last 2 weeks, which is a bit frustrating. I would think that its not a big deal, but then circumstances change the it is hard to get the girls out again! Yes, the dates themselves were ok not “love of my life” situation, but I should have closed anyway. It is a HUGE waste of time, money, if a date ends up being nothing.
I used to have salsa class with the girls and it goes extremely well, however I have been avoiding the salsa scene due to my ex, and have been taking girls out for dinner/drinks. This is getting expensive and boring. Time to change it up.
Todd hit on all the things I was thinking about on my last 3 dates
Going out Sat night I was on a date annoying bay area girl
She’s super annoying. I should have ditched her, however I learned to have a icy face and IOD a lot. She’s super sarcastic and negative. Next time, I will just leave to pick up a new girl.
I learned to stay icy and be unreactive to her comments because if I laughed or showed my real self, she’ll play this sarcastic game like she’s always in control. Bay area girls do that yes it is a stereotype. What I got out of it was to learn to stay calm under pressure, and that even on dates or drinks girls can give you a hard time, its all part of the game until you mentally “defeat” her and she genuinely feels attraction and falls for you. If the girl was worth it… that is what I would do and endure to get her.
Before I meet the date girl HB8 I get a HOT blonde’s number but the interaction was short and I should have qualified a bit more, and texted with her on the spot. Also I ran up to her to hide her tag too much commitment, should have said, “you’re welcome cutie” instead of “hey I love you” eyes.
After she drops me off I walk back for another 3 sets on the street that turns into 5.
I really enjoyed it!
- 1st set hot blonde with part Asian girl, went every well. They wanted me to stay and talk, however they both had boyfriends so I just FB close.
- 2nd set girlfriend took her away but super hot blonde was nice. Would not give number said she can’t and she has to leave.
- 3rd set didn’t go anywhere but it was funny trying to run down sets going home at 1:45am
Set 1 – banter on the street
I opened a young girl as a warm up set, she’s 19 and we chatted for a big .She has a boyfriend of 3 years. Cute. I gave her a hug. I hugged another blonde and we stopped them at the light for a bit, then I lost them when I said something, her friend pulled her away. I lost the friend I should listen to the audio again to see what I said (*AUDIO NOTE)
Set 2 – group set, asshole nice guy, annoying girls, hot but stupid drunk blondes
I opened a girl who gave me a rose. I held the rose and for the rest of the night got opened by girls about it. Great prop. We talk to some dumb blondes who were exactly my type, super skinny and hot faces. The guy they were with was annoying, he would jump in and interrupt and pretend to be nice, but actually was passively aggressive. I asked him who his girlfriend was and he pointed. The 2 hot blondes were obviously drunk, they had these dead eyes and couldn’t even speak properly. I end up gaming the less attractive brunette, but the guy was just being really annoying and interrupting. Y winged me for a bit, which kept him busy, but they soon got confrontational, and I decided it wasn’t worth it. I was getting annoyed the group wasn’t that interesting and both the blondes had serious boyfriends. I did learn though that sometimes overzealous guys will try to cockblock you, if you want the girl, you have to go for it. Read more
FR at Typhoon Taco Tuesday
In the beginning, I was afraid. The scene at Typhoon was chill and there were a lot of social circles. The guys only came in later without girls. Around 9:30 at night the sound amps up and things get moving. Girls are dancing, drinks are filled, etc. I again spent $5 on cover and gas as my expenses.
You can get over the fear by relying on your social circle and friends, or you can figure out how to always depend on yourself and have confidence in your own presence and move forward in life. I chose the latter. Some of the guys that came later went super hard and we were able to do some damage.
My first set was super cool, 5 girls 4 from Sweden. One of the blondes is perfectly my type. I hooked, Jesse came in, and we had a good time. I knew I couldn’t break them it was too early in the night so I left on a high note.
We will re-engage the girls later on in the night and I get the brunettes number. However, the blonde I meet again and I kiss her gently. She’s down. But I remembered she had a boyfriend, and I said goodbye. I regretted this. I should have gotten her number and hung out with her today or tomorrow, before she left on Friday. She was wearing very little clothing and was hot, and she had those big anime eyes when she looked at me. The pain of kicking myself in the foot will remind me of this lesson. Go for the close.
In the beginning we had a group of guys and it was too chill, more group vibe. And we only had 1 girl. Still, a group of guys can chill but our overall energy was low. Read more