Too tired, was at a fashion show then downtown out “gaming”, super tired. Was sick today but decided to go out anyway, I feel ok now.
Lots of sets. Just remember tall blonde who was stunning, got her number should have escalated more or qualified more. HB 9 brunette super stupid and annoying, tried to game. Worked when I got another hot girl to come into set with me and it went pretty well, got a number but she was probably the most stupid girl I’ve talked to in a while, still hot though so B and I just wanted to see how hard and far we could push it.
Still not getting 9s and 10s who don’t show me 100% interest. Ideally its DHV and value up the roof, and from there its a3 qualification onto comfort, but it doesn’t always work that way. MM also assumes 7+ hours, whereas sometimes we want to pull same night, which means we need girls who are already “Down” and in that mode, sometimes you need to look for bars that have that… its not longer the Ivy so we need to re-think our strategy.
”A master PUA always appreciates beauty, but is never distracted by it” – Mystery
I get it now. Male-Female Relations and Social Conditioning
I get it now.
This came to me through a series of piercing the social veil, and the last call P told me about his training with J. Dick (yep real name) and I get it now.
Men are dominant, and want to control women. Women, by nature are submissive and have a deep desire to be dominated and owned. So in success with women, one of the keys is to NOT ask for permission, and not care what she thinks. Simply dominate. Don’t reason, don’t logically change her mind. Just subcommunicate dominance and that you are a man. You will take her and own her regardless of what she thinks, because you understand as a man that by her very nature, she wants you to own her.
Social conditioning rules prevent this from happening. First, women have equal legal rights. Lots of positives. One of the negatives is that we start treating women like men. We wanted equality, what we got was “sameness” – Zan. But we are not the same.
If every man realized the truth, there would be pillaging and rape like we had throughout history. In fact, in 3rd world countries, although women have less legal rights in some, the male-women dynamic is preserved, unlike in more Westernized nations.
I don’t condone real rape, bullying or any type of abuse and unfortunately this happens. But in the game of pickup, I realized that you need do dominate her mentally. Sometimes you need to be physical and hold her down, lead her. Show her the truth of her nature as a woman and you as a man. This means not taking some excuse for an answer, and going for the close.
We are constantly reminded by social conditioning via movies, school, romantic tv shows, that we are supposed to be a gentleman and the woman needs to logically CHOOSE you. This is bullshit. Yes, you can play that game, but it is rigged. You’re either rich and provider. Even then, you’re not fulfilling her deepest sexual needs as a female. The only truth perhaps in pop culture lies in women’s romance novels. 50 Shades of Grey. Every romance novel has some type of male character that understands this underlying M-F nature, and knows that secretly she wants him to take her and own her. This is the tension that is created and why romance novels continues to be a billion-dollar industry mostly read by women.
Understanding this concept affects ALL areas of your life. People want to be lead. People want to be dominated and told what to do. You’re doing her / them a favor. They will perceive it as a favor. Other OGs or real men will not want that, and game will recognize game. But, for the majority of the population, this is true. Even the most powerful woman, on some level, wants a man strong enough to own her completely, mentally and physically.
Courtesy of RSD.
“Its not win-lose. It’s win-learn”
FR 1/16/2014 Stripper Game
Almost pulled a stripper and her friend today.
There were many sets that went very well and banter was good, got 1-2 numbers but the crowed tonight was scarce and clicky.
I was going home on my own and I decide to hit one more bar. I run into stripper girl, and her friend. Immediately the vibe was on, so we hit it off. I played it cool and danced with them and we hung out. Stripper girl has ADD, and also emotional mood swings. She dances with me and uses her stripper moves. Interesting. Then I said, “sorry I don’t have any dollar bills” and she responds badly and goes to talk to a black guy. Yes it was a controversial thing to say but I think she mood swings anyway that’s how her mind works. Later on she hates him, then loves him again. Mystery mentioned the emotional seesaw of strippers in his field reports of the past, I just remained calm and eventually we walkout out, stripper, slightly fat blonde (with cute face) and me. I madeout with the blonde earlier she sort of kissed me. She liked the stripper too though so it was a threeway.
We bounced thank God to Bub’s that was still open, and they goto the bathroom for a long time. I talk to 2 other girls. They come back, we hang out for a long time.
At this point I am in new territory and learning every second. It is exciting and exhilarating.
Stripper: Ok we’re cool
Me: Shake on it Read more