|South Bay||San Francisco||San Diego Downtown||San Diego Pacific Beach|
|HB General level of attractiveness||5/10. A lot of really ugly girls. “Hot girls are mediocre at best||7/10 Some hotties in the marina, DTF mission girls, overall not as sexy||9/10. Lots of promo girls, blondes, hotties at night. Little Italy classier girls during day||9/10. Lots of college sluts and recent grads. DTF girls who are super young, horny, and hot.Obnoxious and annoying at times|
|Female to Male Ratio||Sucks. Seems like 3-4 men to 1 woman||Not bad. Seems even||1:1 at least in the right clubs||1:1 at least in the right places. Muscle heads and frat boys.|
|Ease to Meet Girls You Actually like||Gems in the South Bay are as rare as water in the desert||There are some great girls in the Marina and parts of the city, tend to be more money and career oriented||Lots of cute girls in entertainment, hostesses, and young professionals in law, telecom or biotech. Good girls and bad girls abound||Younger girls tend to date casually and are slutty.Super hot if you can get them, tend to go for marine / steroid dudes though not always|
|Ease of Having Sex||It was hard for me, unless the girl was not hot||Not bad, if you know where to go||Pretty easy if you go out a few times a week||Pretty easy if you fit the profile, otherwise can be harder|
|AMOGs identities||Engineers throwing money and attention at ugly hoes.||“hot girls” tend to have very defensive BFs who work in Tech.||Marine guys, who are built physically but not a lot of money or intelligence. Most guys are less good looking in SD than girls||Frat-type guys here get laid a lot. Befriend them and save some time.|
|General cultural outlook||Get Rich and Be Miserable. Computers are the salvation of man.||How Do I pay Rent next month? Work Hard, Play Hard||Be Happy. Enjoy the sunset. Do Yoga. Go to the beach.||PARRRTY! Drink! Have sex! (repeat x10). Where’s my homework?|
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Making new friends in a new city is not always easy, yet it is necessary. If you want to lead a life of adventure, you will need to learn how to make new friends.
So, you are reading this because you are a PUA in a new city. Or, you’re just a guy in a new city and need some tips on (re)building your social circle. While this post is more specific to PUAs, normal guys and gals can still benefit from it. The process may be a bit different for guys and girls, nonetheless the advice in this post should overlap. Keep in mind I am learning as I go since I moved to San Diego.
Your first 10 days in a new city
I wanted to get this down before I went to sleep as I have been in field for the last 48 hours and have learned a lot and hopefully sharing these here with you will help you with your game. Last 48 hours I:
- Slept with 1 girl
- Opened 50+ girls
- Got rejected 20+ times
- Got about 8-10 solid contacts
- Made out with 1 girl in less than 30 seconds
- Made some really cool friends at a genuine level
Lesson 1: People can be very nice or very mean, they live in their own head space of reality. Read more
Here are my notes from Saturday, organized by the concepts presented. For a general review of the Alexander RSD hotseat, please visit PUA Lingo’s review post here.
Stay in set
Without staying in set you never know what your’e missing. Want to get good? Stay in. Alex shows us a video where it seems like the girl is testing him to no end and doesn’t give him ANYTHING verbally. Yet she physically is complying, and eventually the pull happens. You just never know.
Dissipate negative energy
This is a running theme – see each test as an endurance test and brush it off. Deflect negative energy. Alex seems to do this too much as I would have told the girl off, but he seems to see some goodness in people that the average person does not. That, or he’s so into the game that he wants to prove on footage that he can pick up 9s and 10s who happen to be super bitches.
This is important for same night pulls, and techniques to do this abound in his second video.
Just be with her at closing time – guard the door
“As creepy as this sounds, guarding the door is key – who she wants out of the club with is important and will play into who she goes home with. Even if you just walk her to a late meal or a cab, the number is more likely to be solid”
Approach girls while with other girls Read more
Since I came back from LA, I saw a different level of game that I have never experienced before. At the Roosevelt hotel, Sexual Twinkie and I hit up 9s and 10s all night. In a set of 10 girls coming out of the hotel, 5 of them were 9s and 10s. Here in the bay, you’d be lucky to get 1/10 or 1/20.
I’ve also been hitting my numbers harder, texting AND calling.
One of the texts got no response the week before I left so I called when I got back. She picks up. “Oh hey its you!”. I didn’t remember who it was and then I realized it was the 18 year old. I met her outside of Forever 21 waiting for her boyfriend. We exchanged numbers. I qualified hard. “You do realize I am 10 years older than you right?”
HB: “Yeah, that’s cool I like older guys”
Anyway I setup a lunch. I qualify hard again because I’m trying to reduce my flakes, “hey, I’m trying to manage my time better can you please text or call me to confirm tomorrow 1230″
She replies right away, “yes 1230 see you there!”
Me: “Cool” Read more