How to Get Out of The Rat Race (For Money or Love Final Part 6)

If you are a regular reader of this blog then you know me pretty well. And the reason I write these blog post is so that I can be… a huge douchebag. Because really, I can say anything online and it is pretty cool to be blogging about something anonymously. It is sort of like saying what you want publicly without being identified.

Anyway if you are regular reader you will recall my earlier questions of “for money or love” in which you will find my thoughts in written form about my previous struggles for MONEY OR LOVE. Well I figured it out. The truth is, you can’t wish for both things at once, assuming you have neither.

The reality is that you need to focus on something specially and MAKE it priority. Read more

You and you alone are responsible for your own success

Text Message between me and DJ Fuji

Me: (With the greatest humility I can summon up) I am the best PUA I know. (Exceptions: DJ Fuji and Arash)

(A few hours later)

DJ Fuji: ?

Me: Just venting.

Me: No one I know is better than me. I have come to realize that getting good at game is my responsibility and mine only.

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3 Common Mistakes Newbies Make

How many of us actually get to meet a friend who we are in constant awe of, and yet share an amazing friendship with? We’d be lucky if such a person were to come into our lives, and that we can continue to be the best of ourselves.

When Allen Shore first Met Denny Crane (The Practice):

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Lessons from Porn Director Pierre Woodman

Those of you who are heterosexual males have no doubt heard of Pierre Woodman. If you haven’t, then you are missing some of the most intense (and real) online videos of “online porn”. Woodman’s production doesn’t follow the  ”staged sex scene” method of major porn companies and instead focuses on real girls having real sex scenes that showcase superior technique by a guy that most would consider a “fugly beast”. Of the lessons I learned from watching Pierre Woodman’s HBO documentary:

• We seem to be programmed to sexually desire different genetics. Sex desire is based on smell. Depending on the girl, sometimes he feels that his sexual desire is intense, while other times, mediocre. This is regardless of the girl’s looks and simply relates to the way she smells close up. Perhaps a biological trigger for us to mate with those that have a varied and complimentary gene set.
• As a really hot girl or a man of super high status, usually these people need time to build trust with the opposite sex.
• Having a girl already there creates social proof and additional comfort. Notice the following scenes and how he uses another female there as preselection and social proof in his interview process.

San Diego Field Report 3 and Lessons (Final 3/3)

Lessons Learned – Improve Your Pick Up Skills

Lesson 1. When people are stressed out, they behave in a very strange way. And they don’t realize it. When I came back from San Diego, I realize how stressed a person was from working all the time in Silicon Valley. They argued about things that don’t matter, simply for the sake of their own egos. Perhaps people that are working overtime need something to make themselves feel important, because they’re not living their lives that they want. In order to communicate clearly with these people, you must first understand them, listen, and connect with them in a way that doesn’t trigger the auto stressed responses.

Lesson 2. Being relaxed and free, usually lets out your “best self”. You’re in a relaxed state. I felt very confident and very calm at the same time. This is a great state to be in and to meet new people. This feeling you have that makes you think you can take on the world. Americans work hard. In doing so, we lose sight of what’s really important. The number of people I can quote from work that truly don’t listen, and push their own agendas, stacked up in the hundreds. And those are only people that I have met in my own career. Therefore, a man who is calm, unrushed, take the time to talk and listen, can create value to the corporations. Such a man is highly valued and will likely secure a position that rewards him as such.

Lesson 3. Interaction. Not good looks. Not money. Not even fame. Dress and control your own demeanor to inspire a more frequent and deeper level of interaction with other people, and this will drastically improve your success in a particular venue. For example, I remember a girl who dressed up as little red for Halloween and she was giving away a basket of lollipops. The guy stands in the middle of the road with a sign that says “free hugs“. The girl in the quirky dress and a necklace that says “drink me”. these people may not be the best looking for the most successful and life. But, and added that they own it because it would interact with the most people. The next time you go out to think about this for your style choices and your clothing attire.

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