Online Dating Data: What To Send Girls For Maximum Results

February 18, 2014 by  
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Hypothesis: Online dating response rates can be improved if I write the correct things in the initial message sent.

Methodology:

  • I wanted to test out the most effective messages to send when doing online dating.
  • I scoured the pick up dating forums for suggestions from others that worked.
  • I had to keep track of all the data over a 2 week period to see if the girl responded to my original message
  • The responses were 90% positive, although 10% of them were negative. This is not reflected in the data. PUAs say that any response is an IOI, but some of the response led nowhere
  • I hired a remote assistant to send out 100 messages, totaling 787 messages over a 6 week period.
  • Use free sites only
  • Cost: $35 a week x 6 weeks = $210
  • I also created a fake hot babe account who was gorgeous to get a sense of what type of messages she received, this was my competition. She got over 200 messages in 2 days.

So officially, my instructions were:

1. Heidi, I want you to send 5 messages over the next week to 100 girls

2. Use your judgement as to the type of girl and adapt accordingly

3. Age range should be 18-49, no Asian girls or black girls, unless they are exceptionally beautiful

4. Let me know if you have any questions, here are my logins

My 5 Messages and instructions to my “dating strategist” assistant: Read more

Field Report and Realizations in The Game

February 8, 2014 by  
Filed under Learn about Pickup

I was out tonight on a light date and then out with a few of the guys. They all wanted to go out hardcore and pick up, I was more interested in walking around and hanging out. As I was walking home I did a few sets. I had a couple of epiphanies.

1. PU industry is over saturated with products that are repetitive.

There are only a few books you should read to get really good knowledge. The rest of it lies in your ability to systematically practice your social interactions on a consistent basis. If I was advising a newbie, I would recommend:

  • The original Mystery Method handbook
  • The Game, a unbiased account of Style’s journey in the community
  • RSD’s Blueprint Decoded
  • Attend one of RSD’s hotseat events and see in-field footage for yourself. Do this after you have had at least 3-6 months of consistent in-field experience
  • I don’t recommend bootcamps, in fact I think they are over-priced and adrenaline boosting, but you can learn more from hanging out with naturals, or befriend instructions and offer them a lower price but longer period of time training with them. You then start picking up their mindset and way of thinking much faster than if you would on a bootcamp or on your own.

2. RSD is pushing the envelop, but that’s it. Every other pick up company is just here for marketing and here for the short term. I am disappointed at Mystery for his business-sense is lacking. After his initial breakthrough he wasn’t able to ride the wave towards more innovation and build a sustainable organisation. Perhaps his fate is to be the mad scientist or magician.

3. Normal life vs. pick up life… Read more

Is Tinder Racist? Statistical Analysis and Tricks to Win The Tinder Game

February 3, 2014 by  
Filed under Learn about Pickup

So the question of the week is: Is Tinder Racist?

I won’t tease you with this one. We already know that minorities receive less replies via OKCupid’s analysis and probably the rest of the online dating world. The short answer is “yes”. Tinder is racist. So is online dating. So is society. But the data may surprise you as far as how racist it really is vs. what we expect.

For those of you that don’t know, Tinder is a fast growing app that allows users to “like” or “reject” a profile based on that person’s picture. If both users “like” each other, a match is made and you can then message the person. People praise it for weeding out the “creepy” factor because girls get to choose which guys they prefer based on their Tinder pictures. Other people complain that it is based on superficial factors like one’s photo and physical attributes.

tinder ui

Hypothesis: Tinder is racist.

Methodology to test hypothesis:

  1. I created 6 profiles of different types of people
  2. I ran a hacked automated tool that likes everyone in your area on Tinder
  3. Each profile had multiple pics and distinct tag lines, and I only included below the primary profile pics
  4. We recorded the number of return likes in 24 hours, and the number of messages each profile received

So, without further ado here are our contestants: Read more

FR Sting and Bang Bang 2/2/2014

February 2, 2014 by  
Filed under Learn about Pickup

So tired to write FRs after everything. 2 sets I remember the most:

1) Girl walking away with 2 other girls.

Me: “Hey, I like your face”

HB: haha

Me: Whats your name

HB ____

I stick with them, say hi to the friends. Other guys are on them but eventually drop off

Me: You have to give me your number, we’ll hang out. Quick.

I got her number.

 

2) Girl eyes me at club. I recognize it and open. Set goes very well, I physically escalate until she pushes me lightly away from in between her legs. Logistics are not good, she’s with 2 friends who all came together.

We decided to let them go and realized that was a good call, other guys dropped off like flies.

 

FR Stingaree 2/1/2014

February 1, 2014 by  
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I was in a bad mood and I got out of it with some help from friends. I was feeling annoying when I am working on business stuff with a singular focus and I start resenting anyone who cannot help me get to where I want to go. Anyway tonight I learned a lot from Jared and also implemented a lot of things right.

1. I spoke slowly and more confidently

2. I made eye contact – this made a HUGE difference in my interactions. I would look at a girl directly. I need to sexualize this more right now they laugh or just stare back, but I need to project the “I want you” energy vibe.

3. I made some escalations that the girls did not reject. Holding hands, putting my left in between their leg, patting her on the ass from behind

4. In one set, with my Macedonian wing we had 2 super tough girls. The tipping point came when I said, “I’m not into your type honey, no offense. I’m from San Francisco”. She slipped at that point and became interested. They were drunk, stupid girls but I realized that game was implemented correctly and from that point on, she started asking me questions and chasing me. It was a active disqualifier done right!

5. I almost pulled a hottie but she found her friends. Need to play the audio back for Jared to see what else I could have done, if anytihng

Jared Psych on Sexual Escalation:

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