7 Loser Female Traits

Losers: they’re everywhere.

You may remember them as your classmates who failed to follow you into middle school or high school as a kid. You may see them on the street as the homeless  as an adult. You may even know a friend who decided to settle for “status quo” at work and just… stopped trying.

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“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation, and go to the grave with the song still in them” (Henry David Thoreau).

But what about girl losers? I’m not talking about the obvious ones. I’m talking about the girls who are “hot” but are still completely losery. As a Romance Artist, you still admire her beauty. But, over time, you start to see the cracks and lose attraction for her. Zan alluded to this in The Alabaster Girl: “A hot girl is beautified, but she’s not necessarily beautiful. True beauty is rare.”

After my last round of dating, I’ve taken a pause in my dating life to reflect on the type of girls I truly want. I realized I’ve been dating some very hot but very loser-type girls. As the end of the day, I need someone who can support me in my conquests, not drag me down with them. This journey requires a steadfast co-pilot. So this post is dedicated to my future sidekick, to let out my inner frustrations at my current pool of dating applicants, and to hopefully help you see the signs of loser mentality in otherwise hot girls.

Before I begin, let’s differentiate “loser” vs “crazy in the matrix:

The Hot Crazy Matrix is explained as such:
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