What’s Your REAL Score?

We keep certain thoughts in our mind, swimming around and ever-evolving and moving around. Often times, we let our minds keep track of the stats. Something, with regards to activities we are attempting to master, keeping score matters. The baseball player who wants to win the game, or the SAT tests that a student needs to improve his score on to get into Harvard.

Recently a good friend of mine brought to my attention that my “score” may be lower than what I say it is. When people ask me, I say, “I stopped counting after 30, because it doesn’t matter to me anymore”. And honestly believed it to be true. I recently wrote the “list”, and here’s my final tally as of 15 minutes into it. I am counting every “insertion” or “happy ending” for me as “1″: Read more

Step 1: Admitting you are not the sex worthy guy

A few days ago, TK was visiting us from LA, and in the Mastermind Alliance group we began looking at each other and commenting on each of our physical, voice, and overall impressions on the group. This was done in a very constructive way and it was one of the best sessions I have had, personally. Afterward I really started to look at all of the comments that were said about me, and also how much of it I was aware of. Of importance were: Read more